Tips for Protecting Youth From Sexual Abuse
1. KNOW
KNOW how to recognize boundary violations and how offenders operate. It’s up to us as adults to do all we can to prevent child sexual abuse and create safe environments for children. Teaching children about their bodies, recognizing warning signs, and responding to any concerns are important first steps. Even very young children can learn some skills to help keep themselves safe from sexual abuse, but it’s up to parents to help them learn what they need to know. Here are some important things you can teach that will help you help your child stay safe.
2. SEE
SEE. Keep your eyes and ears open for signs of abuse and talk with your child, asking them about your concerns. If something is wrong, you may see a sudden change in your child’s behavior, or you may hear unusual comments. If you see or hear these things, follow up. Find a relaxed time to talk with them.
3. RESPOND
RESPOND. If you see warning signs from your child or adult, or you hear about something that sounds like abuse, report it immediately.If your child tells you about sexual abuse or inappropriate behavior, here’s how to react. Your response plays a big role in how your child understands abuse and how he/she recovers.
- Stay calm.
- Comfort your child.
- Listen carefully.
- Ask for examples.
- Do not threaten or criticize the person your child is accusing.
Learn more about the State of Tennessee’s guidelines for child protection.
Concern Reporting Policy
At the YMCA of East Tennessee, we are committed to providing a safe, supportive, and respectful environment for all children, teens, and families. We value open communication and encourage parents, caregivers, members, and participants to share concerns, suggestions, or grievances.
Reporting concerns — including bullying, harassment, inappropriate behavior, or abuse — helps us protect the well-being of everyone in our care. We take every concern seriously and act promptly and thoughtfully. For a full explanation of our Grievance and Reporting Policy, click here.
More Resources for Parents
Together, we can help prevent child sexual abuse. Take a look at some of these helpful resources from other organizations who share the Y’s commitment to the safety of children.
Educational Videos and Information for Parents & Caregivers by Praesidium
Abuse Prevention Introduction
Recognize Abuse and it’s Warning Signs
How to Talk to Youth About Abuse
How to Respond to Child Abuse
Online Training for Parents & Caregivers by U.S. Center for SafeSport
The U.S. Center for SafeSport produces online abuse awareness and prevention courses. Click here to access all online training materials. After following the link, click the “Get Trained Now” button. This will take you to the Learning Management System, where you can create a free account and access the training.
